Saturday, March 14, 2009

Spring Break 2009

Ava and Josh have been working in the yard now that the weather is a little warmer. We decided Ava needed a shovel that was her size. You would have thought we bought her a pony. She was so excited!


This girl loves her shovel.


three bluebonnets in the backyard


Thanks to Baba for playing with Ava while Daddy worked in the yard and Mommy cleaned house.


We haven't had a bathtub shot in a while. I laughed so much at Ava's face in this picture. We have a photo of my brother making this same face...it's spookily similar. I'm going to find that photo of Nate and post it soon.


We started Spring Break with a (backordered) birthday present from Baba and Pops...a trampoline. Ava can bounce just like Tigger.


A trampoline AND a gymanstics bar...awesome!


A million thanks to Uncle Nate for letting us borrow his portable DVD player for the Houston trip.


Can we just take this horsey home?


On our way back to Brenham we stopped to have dinner with Clover, Rachel, Dixie, and Coooper Carroll. It was our first time to meet Cooper...what a sweetie! Click here to read a little history of our friendship with the Carrolls. Ava and Cooper hit it off right away.


It's hard to get a good picture of three kiddos.


A goldfish and applejuice picnic...does life get any better? Oh to be 2 and 3 again:)


Dixie wanted to hold Ava's hand all the time, unfortunately sometimes Ava's independent nature would not allow it. Sorry Dixie, the girl's got a mind of her own.


fast friends


Rachel kindly snapped the following two pictures of Ava, as I have zero eye for photography. On our walk Ava could not stop squatting down to observe the rocks on the gravel road. I think we may have a little geologist on our hands. When we take her to the playground at my school, she spends most of her time collecting pea gravel.



This photo is destined for the wedding slide show.


They looked like little fairies in the forest.


What a sweet friend, Dixie shared her bluebonnets with Ava.


Josh helped Rachel shoulder some of the Cooper burden while Ava continued to study the rocks. Doesn't this look like a man who needs a few more kiddos? (Not until after law school.)


Dixie and Ava traded baby dolls and snuggled to rest and watch Pooh.


All tuckered out. Check out those legs! Poor girl is doomed to a fate of never having pants long enough...just like Mommy. Seriously, my middle school years were spent 100% prepared for a flood.


Soon after Josh and I were married we started working at a little cafe/boutique in Brenham, Texas. Josh was youth minister at a little church between College Station and Brenham, and we were both still at A&M. The owner of The Funky Art (cafe part)/The Pomegranate (boutique part) is a kind, super talented lady named Connie. She was so supportive of us throughout the early part of our marriage. We always pop in for fabulous conversation and food when we're in the area. If you happen to be traveling through Brenham Monday through Saturday between 11:00 and 2:00 I highly recommend that you stop in. The chicken salad will change your life.

I had to get a picture of the super chic purple wall in The Funky Art Cafe. When we were working there I helped decide on the color...it's almost identical to the paint on my bedroom walls in high school (yes, my parents were very kind to me).


Mommy and Ava beside Connie's year round "tree"


Anytime we're at Mimi and Coach's house, this is where you'll find Ava...in the playroom. Here's a sweet shot of her playing with Coach.


As I mentioned earlier, we spent our Spring Break on two whirlwind law school visits (why did Houston and Norman have to be a million miles apart?). On Tuesday we visited the University of Houston, which was a complete dump. They were cold and not family-friendly at all (the tour guide was huffy because she had to take the elevator to accommodate Ava’s stroller). Needless to say, we quickly crossed them off our list.

All along Josh and I (and our parents) have prayed that this law school decision would be an easy one, that God would give us a clear sign to show us the way to go. Early Thursday morning we left Ava with Josh’s parents and headed to Norman, Oklahoma to visit the University of Oklahoma law school. Honestly, my attitude was not good. I was sick of being in the car, and didn’t see the point in driving four hours to visit a school that would be an obvious no. I didn't want to be away from Ava for two days. But Josh had made hotel and dinner reservations, so I went.

As we pulled into the town of Norman I was very surprised. It was quaint, clean, small…it actually reminded me a lot of College Station (one of my favorite places in the world). We drove up to the law school and were astounded. The facilities were amazing, more grandiose than Baylor’s if you can imagine that. When we walked in, the assistant dean of admissions warmly welcomed us and sent Josh to visit a class. She sat and talked with me for the entire hour that he was there. She told me a lot about the town, and the family-friendly atmosphere of the law school. It is very common for law student’s kiddos to come and visit between classes. She even had contact information for a retired Norman teacher who was ready to meet with me and answer any questions I had. When Josh came out of class we met with the dean, who offered him a significant scholarship, with a strong probability of more once he’s enrolled (many scholarships are set up so that they can’t be awarded until a student begins classes). Even if he doesn’t get another dime, he could go for all three years at OU for a little more than half of one year at Baylor. That sign I mentioned earlier was starting to glow neon yellow.

We had about thirty minutes before our law school tour started, so we drove two blocks over to visit the OU Children’s Center. A lady met us at the door and I asked her if she thought they might have an opening in July for a teacher and two-year-old student. Her jaw hit the floor. Turns out she was the director, who just started the job last Monday. She’s working to beef up teaching standards at the center, and is desperate for certified teachers. While there were many positions open, one really appealed to me. The plan: I will teach the two-year-old room…my newest student…Ava James. With me working there and Josh enrolled at the law school, she’ll go for almost nothing. And we’ll all three have full benefits. That neon yellow sign was blinking.

After our campus tour, we could not stop asking ouseleves if this could all be real. Everyone was SO nice, and our tour guide recommended a realtor. We met with him on Friday morning and he showed us how far house $$$ could go in Oklahoma…a nice 3 bedroom, 2 bath, 2 car garage, fenced in back yard in town: $200 less a month than our mortgage right now. The neon yellow flashing sign was now singing the theme song to the movie Oklahoma. (I still don't know how people who live in Oklahoma get those songs out of their heads...I was singing showtunes the entire trip.)

So with all that said, we’re moving to Norman. Believe me, I am absolutely shocked at this development. Our parents are being so supportive, they all say that they can’t argue with the obvious indicators. While I’m thrilled with #1 not being $200,000 in debt when Josh graduates, #2 a family-friendly law school, #3 a job that allows me to spend time with Ava, #4 some socialization for Ava, #5 an inexpensive home, I can't believe we're about to pack up and move to another state! It’s still surreal to me. Poor Ava, her Big 12 allegiances are going to be so torn...Tech, A&M, Baylor, and now OU. Please continue to pray for us as we put our house on the market and trust God to take care of us. Scroll down to see some pictures of the campus.


The OU Law library...I kind of wish we could go back and get married here:)


the law school's front side (the days we were there were super cold and rainy/icy, so I snagged these pictures from the OU website)


the real reason Josh decided to move to Norman


Sunday, March 1, 2009

Ava-isms

I can't post pictures right now, because I refuse to take any of a sick baby. However, Ava's sickness has not curbed her spirit. Here are some of our favorite moments over the past few weeks:

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Josh: *bathing Ava while I scurry around cleaning house* Okay, we've washed your hair, and your neck, and your tummy. Where else do we need to clean?

Ava: The kitchen!

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Ava: Where's Papa? (her great grandfather had come to visit)

Mamaw: I think he went around to the back yard. *pointing to back yard*

Ava: Don't poinK a me, don't poinK a me where's Papa!

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Ava: Don't say me no!

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Ava: Don't say me don't do that!

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Mommy: *groaning with the flu on couch*

Ava: *singing sweetly and patting my chest* Row, row, row the boat, gently down the stream, merr, merr, merr, merr, life's a spider dream.

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Ava: *in a sing-song voice from the next room, as Josh and I brushed our teeth* Daddy, I'm up where I don't belong (pronounced in 3 syllables: bee lah ong)!

We ran into the bedroom to find her up on the side of her bed, hanging on to the blinds for dear life.

What did we do before we had this little monkey?

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Flu

Mommy and Ava both have the flu. Pray that Josh doesn't get it, and that we both get healthy soon! *cough cough*

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

For Valentines Day weekend Josh, Ray, and Ryan organized a whirlwind trip to San Antonio for Sarah, Kristyn, and me. It was so fun to get away! Thanks to BaBa and Pops for keeping Ava.

Here are the girls, all blinged up with Premier Jewelry. Thanks Sarah!


The boys before dinner, they joked that it looked like an AT&T commercial.

You can't go to San Antonio and not visit the Alamo.

Always the history lover, Josh found some Texas history that none of us knew. The Civil War almost started in San Antonio! You'll have to ask him for the specifics.

The only time you'll ever see Josh holding a gun. (I snapped this one for you Dad!)

Mi Tierras...another San Antonio must

Serenaded with De Colores, my favorite Spanish folk song. Thanks Mrs. Massey for making me memorize this classic a million years ago in high school Spanish class. The Mariachis are always thrilled when it's not another La Cucaracha request.

A couples riverboat taxi trip to end the trip...how touristically perfect.

For more pictures from San Antonio click here.

Some good friends, the Broaddus, taught us about Mattress Days a year or so ago. It started out as a great way to spend some face time as a couple, but has morphed into a family affair. All you need is a mattress on the floor of your living room, pajamas, comfort food, cell phones off, and some fun movies...gloomy weather optional but recommended. Since it was Valentines Day we enjoyed some chocolate-covered strawberries. I highly recommend this cheap "staycation" to everyone!

Just like that, Ava was transformed from baby to little girl. Don't be fooled and think those are sponge curlers in her hair. She insists that they are marshmallows. Anyone else a sponge-curlers-while-sleeping survivor?

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

Gymnastics and a New Addition to the Family


waiting for class to start



stretching with Mommy


rocking and balancing


One of the coaches teaches Ava how to mount the vault.


brave jumps from the vault


Ava listens for instructions.


flipping over the bar


The coach's hand is behind Ava for support, but not touching her at all. She is SO strong!


a blurry but perfect dismount


The newest addition to the dollhouse are former residents of The Hundred Acre Woods. The generous Lovings have opened their home to Pooh, Tigger, Piglet, Roo, Buster, and Darby. Ava lined them up outside on the lawn for a lovely gala.


Ava makes sure that everyone gets a cupcake and kiss from the dollhouse mommy.


Norah Loving kisses Pooh Bear Spiderman-style


a rare moment when these chubby little hands are still

the sweetest toes I know

At her 2 year checkup we found out that Ava is in the 75th percentile for her height, 50th for weight, and 92nd for her headsize...now that she's outside my tum I don't care how big that noggin grows:)

Sunday, February 1, 2009

Dedicated


Every six weeks or so Ava visits Dr. Lederman, a pediatric chiropractor in Irving. We enjoy some time with Brandon and Sarah, and usually end up window-dreaming at North Park Mall. Last Saturday we headed up to Dallas for a whirlwind weekend. After a quick adjustment, some vitamin shopping, and breakfast at La Madeline Ava and Aunt Sarah are ready to go!



Ava amuses herself while Daddy tries on shirts.

We always see tons of kiddos sliding on this structure outside of Williams-Sonoma. Usually we just admire the ducks and turtles in the little pond and move on, but this time Ava was brave enough to try it out.

Fast forward seven days. This Saturday the weather was BEAUTIFUL, so we joined the Broaddus family for a picnic lunch at Poage Park in Woodway. Josh and I quickly learned that if you take a toddler to the park for lunch she won't be too concerned with the food. After about two bites of her sandwich Ava was ready to play.

Static from the slide gave Ava crazy hair. Without thinking I kissed her at the bottom of one of the slides, it was quite shocking!

my sunshine

rocking on the frog

swinging with Daddy

swinging with Courtney and Patrick

Baba and Pops kept Ava on Friday night so Josh and I could clean house. Ava's room was in desperate need of a "big girl" makeover. All of the cutesy stuff that wasn't necessary was packed away. She can actually play in her room now...which I guess is kind of the point. Here's the new and improved nursery:

The dollhouse finally found a spot that makes sense!

the new baby doll niche in the nursery

a Beene Beene quilt and changing table/dresser

Ava's crib and wall decor

Completing the 360 view of her room. The left doorway leads to her bathroom and our study-turned-playroom. The right doorway goes into the hallway.

When I was preggo with Ava she would do gymnastics anytime I ate pineapples, so it became her nickname. This little cookie cutter hangs over the entrance to her nursery.


The slew of little ones at FBC Mertens being dedicated on Sunday. There were 6 in all! We definitely had the Ava James-est one.

Although it looks like we're all zoned out, we're actually listening to Ray dedicate the kiddos. Well, Ava might be plotting the quickest route to the nursery.

Mommy wasn't feeling 100% so we didn't get as many pictures of this special day as we wanted. There were so many sweet family members and friends at church to encourage our little family. Thanks to everyone who came. We love all of you! And here is one last sweet shot of Ava and Aunt Jaryn.